How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 04:02

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What I need from you?

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Does not procrastinate.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hangs out with loser friends.

He said he loves me, but why is it difficult for him to leave his wife?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

That's it for today.

Do not set goals—set systems.